I enter the room in a black silk robe and ask, “Which one of you is Toby?” A thirty-year old man in a grey suit raises his arm. He is sitting in a plush armchair by the fire. There are six men standing around him in the office, wearing navy-blue and black suits. “I think … More Sexual fantasies: The overactive imagination of someone who is now (pretty much) celibate
It has been 224 days since I had sex. As in, the last time I had sex I had to run out because I was late for a pantomime. It was almost Christmas. This is not the longest I have gone without sex (376 days was a record) so I am still functioning, like a … More Things you only know if you’ve not had sex in a long time
The origins of the orgasm gap and how to solve it. Essential reading if you’re sick of “bad sex”. … More Mind the Orgasm Gap: Why Do Women Have Fewer Orgasms than Men?
The contraceptive pill is a ball-ache for many reasons. Mood-swings and impromptu crying sessions. New sexual partners don’t want to wear a condom (and some of us live in fear of getting herpes). But, worst of all, you have to take the contraceptive pill at the same time every day. That’s a huge commitment and … More When Is The Best Time To Take The Contraceptive Pill?
Imagine you meet someone. They’re cute, funny and have good political views (the trifecta of modern dating). A few Tequila shots later, you order an Uber and invite yourself over for an adult sleepover. After the ‘sleepover’, the tiny attraction you felt for this person starts to grow. On Crazy Ex Girlfriend Heather says this is because … More SOS: My Plan to Escape Dicksand
Last night, I tried and failed to have a one night stand. I failed even though I was staying in the boy’s house in Finsbury Park. The night out I had been out with a group of girls from my university. It was my friend’s birthday, so we all trekked in to central London from … More An Impromptu Sleepover (The Failed One Night Stand)